Language of Compassion

At the core of the tortured soul is often what we call issue number one: sex, love and partnership. Particularly

here, new visions have to be seen, new icons have to be created and new information has to enter the human

organism. There can be no peace on Earth as long as there is war in love. The old picture of couplehood and

marriage was too small to withstand the immense storms of the World-Power of Eros. Today we see the

1)The noun “Geist” (adj. “geistic”) is used throughout this text to better reflect the notion of “intellect, spirit and soul” as expressed in this German term.

outlines of a new erotic culture which is able to contain more freedom and more truth. It is not about

ideological decisions between monogamy and polygamy, but rather about truth and trust in love and about

ending the latent war between the genders.

When you communicate do you create a confusing tangle or dance a beautiful tango?

Here I give a presentation at the Mello Center about the relationship between Tango and Nonviolent Communication.

*Duhm draws from his experience of actually creating super successful large politically powerful, eco villages for over 40 years in Europe.  I am not suggesting we move into intentional communities, but I do believe we can learn from the successful ones, how to be more harmonious, powerful, and nurturing.  I believe the NVC networks and communities could benefit greatly from Duhm’s experience and  perspective on the nature and role of communities or networks in the evolution of humanity and social change.  I have found great genius in the tools and group process/practices emerging from this experimental cultures like The Zegg Forum, which is the foundation for growth, community conflict resolution, inspiration, trust, transparency and energetic communion for many intentional communities and other organizations in Europe.   The Zegg Forum was developed over many years to address the many archetypal issues that emerge in the process of growing a large healthy organization within a domination culture.  They have been particularly successful in developing tools for transformation, trust and transparency in the taboo, and therefore powerful and controlling areas of creative self expression, love, power, sex, and money.  It is their belief that when these aspects are not transparent, flowing and healthy they create drama, stuck-ness, politicking, competition, low enthusiasm, poor financial flow and infighting.  They also have a great reputation with G.E.N. (Global Eco-village Network) for their consciousness and models for SexPeace, i.e. harmony and trust between men and women, which is a prerequisite for a healthy organization or community. (see Zegg.de, Tamera.org)

Unconditional Parenting through NVC:
Kelly shares his own family rule: No one allowed to give in.
‘Thanks’, and ‘No’ is ok by the way

Unconditional Parenting through NVC

interviewed by Stephanie Bachmann Mattei of NVC Academy

Below is a comparison list of relationship values.  I am comparing Trust Based Relationship Values in contrast with Tradition Based Relationship Values, because consciousness loves contrast and the differences become more distinct when compared.  This is my own list and attempt to clarify my relationship values.  I hope this helps you in your process, and please feel free to comment below, although I may not answer each individually.

enjoy,
Kelly

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